MouthyGirl.com

Hey everyone…..my name is Monica and I am the second writer. We will be alternating posts so if it sometimes seems that the posts are randomly sequenced it is because, although we are best friends, we live very different lives. OK…here goes…I am not saying that this a cardinal sin, because I honestly feel that every woman needs to have one for some reason or another in her lifetime (like when she is trying desperately to seperate herself from a toxic man), but I want to set the record straight on this ordeal before the appeal to our younger generation is misconstrued. So….here is where I lay it on the line for you guys…or should I say gals.

Sometimes in life you forget to remember who you are, I know this sounds ludicrous but there is a time in life where no matter how much you try you can not gain control of the things going on around you and in some small way it seems that if maybe you let yourself partake in the things that only occur in another world……a mans world, you can some how get a grasp on the road back to yourself. Hey I am a firm believer that if a guy can do it, so can we…………….not true ladies.

This is a myth, we are not built for this kind of encounter and it proves to be self destructive in the long run. I say this from experience at this point (unfortunately), although I have to say I would not take it back even if I could. I believe that the hurdles you jump in life determine who you are as a person and I would never change who I am….for anything. I battle every day to become a stronger me and I believe that it is because I pray for wisdom that I lead a trying life…………but I say bring it on!!! I will not preach to you about the mistakes I have made, but I beg you to learn from my mistakes and not make them the errors of your way.

I have not walked away empty handed from this experience and I am sure that I have much more to learn but I know now that you can not walk away from an old love by merely giving your body away to a stranger. It has only created more turmoil than I would like to have in my life at this point. I find myself facing strange feelings for a man I don’t even know and probably wouldn’t like even if I did. I am begging you girls to listen with your heart to what I am saying…..it is not as easy as a man makes it look to seperate your body and soul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-Monica

If you enjoyed this post, make sure you subscribe to my RSS feed!