Mar 22 2008
I’ve been thinking of adding a page of products endorsed by MouthyGirl.com and wondered, before I do something like that, what you all would think about that?
Would it be a page you ever checked out, I’d fill it with fun products, sexy ones, necessary ones, enjoyable ones, etc.
What do you think?
Stuff like this great company offers:
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Listening to: Korn - A.D.I.D.A.S.
via FoxyTunes
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Mar 22 2008
I just signed up for Twitter…which is really cool because you can text in comments or whatever…I’m gonna see if I can install a widget here to allow the twitter posts to be posted here as well. I can text like a ninja and I know Monica can too… so this just might keep us all a bit more connected and I’m all for that.
I think it would be awesome to build a network up so that when one of us is maybe having a bad day, we can all send funnies, or encouragement along the line to boost our step. Or even for jokes, frustrations, greetings, happy birthdays…the list goes on. Here’s another new thing we’re trying.
If you want to join, here’s the home page for MouthyGirl:
http://twitter.com/home
or click here.
You can update from the web or from your cell phone texting feature. We’ll try it out and see what happens. Sign up and be part of the community of MouthyGirl.com!
Check it out, it has the potential to be really cool I think, as long as you all join me!
Snoop Dogg is even on Twitter .
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Listening to: Tupac Shakur - Picture Me Rollin
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Mar 21 2008
It’s more than just an old country song or expression, it’s true. We celebrate firsts when it’s our little ones, but do you celebrate your firsts? What was a particular first that you had that you’ll never forget? Or several of course….
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Mar 21 2008
Recently, like I do sometimes, I was complaining about pressure at work, not having enough time to do things, not making enough money, etc. You know the drill. My best friend, Monica (yes, the other writer here) said something to the effect of, “Get some damn business cards and give me some and start building websites! You have something you can do to make extra money, now just do it. The only thing stopping you is you.” Isn’t she helpful? LOL
She’s right. It’s far easier to piss and moan about things and situations that leave you feeling helpless than it is to do something about it. So I said, “You’re right, I do need to do it, shut up and just do it”. And you know what, I haven’t even ordered them yet. Nope. I’m getting in my own damn way again.
Often we have the tools to change our game up and shake things up to make them a little better. We overlook skills and abilities in ourselves and begin to think all we are is our job description.
Today I’m taking one step closer to my future when I do more work on an ebook I’m cowriting. With plans to have my part of it done by Sunday, we can start marketing it and help people dig themselves out of a hole.
You might hear about it on Sabrina’s Money Matters, but I probably won’t promote it here…
Today is Good Friday a good day to take one step closer to a dream, a goal or a purpose…what are you going to do today?
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Mar 20 2008
Did you hear the crowd gasp? I did.
Women like sex. Sure some of us like it less, some of us like it more, some of us like it freaky and some of us like it plain. But we do like it.
What we’ve been talking about this week is need fulfillment. We can find so many ways in which to be fulfilled and dance around the subject, but let’s face it, sex is fulfilling in so many ways. It’s even scientific! It’s fun, it makes you feel sexy, beautiful and good. Because if it doesn’t feel that way then you are not doing it for the right reasons. Having sex is for the person having it, not the one that you’re having it with. If it is not just as enjoyable for you as it is them, there’s something wrong with this picture.
Not every woman has the emotional make-up to be a friend with benefits, or fuck buddy as we so fondly call it. It sounds so chummy that way. 
Some of you don’t care about sex, and that’s fine. But women all too often have sex for the person they’re having it with instead of themselves. It’s not a shameful thing to enjoy sex. It’s human, natural and expected! Even the bible tells you so.
Ultimately, you must be true to you. If you can handle it, do it, if you can’t - don’t hate on the ones that can. A lot of us have caught ourselves thinking that someone is a slut if she’s dressed provocatively and walks by in front of us, you might even mutter under your breath. But don’t do that, you don’t know how hard she works or what kind of hardships she has in life, judging based on appearance is shallow, heartless and ridiculous.
You see a girl flirting blatantly with someone and want to hate on how obvious she’s being, realize you’ve probably done the same thing, or have wanted to, so don’t be mad at her for having her game face on.
Confidence is the underlying issue I think for women, and you are going to have to realize that only you can celebrate you the way that you deserve. We don’t have to compete against each other because there are plenty of men out there.
I don’t think I believe in true love, so that “one for you” in my opinion is a myth. I think you have to find the one that makes you the most comfortable being you. The one who likes it when you’re you. And the one you like when he’s himself.
In the meantime, why not be safe and not sleep around with every date you go on but find someone that you can trust to have sex with and just fill that need for each other. There are rules though to keep yourself from falling for him, so that you know there won’t be an issue when you do meet someone special.
Yep, there are rules.
2. He has to have nothing you want in a man, except that one thing of course.
3. You never want this guy to meet your family.
4. You have to feel safe with them.
5. You have to be 100% honest with them and tell them that your intentions are simple, not complicated and that this is all you want from him.
6. Be able to walk away without looking back.
They make sense don’t they? Someone you won’t settle for that takes care of one need for you. Easy to walk away, and for him as well. It has to be a mutual agreement.
If you find that you walk away and start having feelings, you need to realize this may not be for you. And that’s okay. We can’t all do it and that’s what makes us individual and different, we are all capable of different things, but that doesn’t mean we have to be competitive or be like that, it just means that we’re different and that’s all.
What do you think?
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Mar 19 2008
OK… when we started this site, Sabrina and I decided this would be where we came to vent, to encourage and to stimulate change in the female perspective. So, I hope that my candidness will not be a problem for you gals. Honestly, I think if this is an issue, then you probably need to return to high school where people thrive on creating drama. I mean…….come on……..if something offends you, eliminate the source!!!!
As Sabrina so blatantly proposed several days ago……Lets talk about SEX!!! I have been in several dead end relationships where the only thing I walked away with was confusion, heartache and a whole lot-ta DEBT. I currently hold an associates degree in business, I am 18 hours short of my bachelors in Marketing, and about a year ago I received my Real Estate License. When I look at love, my view is so distorted that I almost think I was meant to be single. I am convinced I am the only person (besides my BFF Sabrina) that thinks this is just as much a woman’s world as a mans.
Since my last “love”-the most devastating of my life-I have decided that I have worked to damn hard in my life to waste my talents on a man. I believe there are people who get married and live “happily ever after”, but I do not think that will be me. I believe that every woman is just as sexual a creature as any man. In fact, I believe women are more sexual than men. I believe when a woman has sex with a man, whether it is “love-making” or “fucking” we give it our all. So I have decided that I am going to live each day to its fullest….I will not report back to a man each day………I will not become that complacent female that acts as if all her dreams have come true because some man has decided that he wants to say “forever” with her.
Instead, I chose to face up to my mortality and take a mature approach regarding the issue of SEX. Being single, it is rough for a girl to have fulfillment and still keep her own sense of self. It is typical for a girl to merge her soul with her mates during love making. If you will refer to my previous post on one night stands you will find that even I have battled that fine line that lies between sex and love.
The other night when I was with the guy I decided to turn the tables on, we connected on a whole different level. Although we did not sleep together, we communicated much more deeply. I now know all about his mother that died of cancer 9 years ago and his father whom he believes cheated on her several years prior to her death. My only concern with this new found friendship is that, at one time I only wanted to have sex with him on a regular basis to save me from infamilularity with strange men, and now he has made it personal with all his stories and feelings.
I am asking you as the audience, would I be wrong to turn this guy into a “fuck buddy” after he has so openly laid out his feelings? If so, why? Guys do this all the time. Turn about is fair play…….isn’t it?
-Monica
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Mar 18 2008
A couple of months ago I had an extremely brief affair with a co-worker after our company Christmas party. I knew the “rules” and deliberately, knowingly and belligerently broke them anyways. In case the obvious needs stating…….there were many drinks involved. After what seemed to be an exciting night of no boundaries and lust so thick it could have been bullet-proof, I soon gained the harsh realization that things would never be the same between us again.
I woke with such a fury the next morning (already an hour late to work), I panicked and succumbing to the stereotypical female mentality I frantically kissed him goodbye while rushing out the door…..when all I really wanted to do was fire off one million questions at him in desperate attempt to gain some kind of clarity regarding the night before.
The next time I saw him was at work, where we both acted as if nothing happened. In fact, we were so distant it was as though we didn’t even know each other. Four months has lapsed since our encounter and out of nowhere he has decided I am a pretty cool person that might be worth talking to………imagine that!!! So in honor of St. Patricks day last night we went to a bar with friends from work and celebrated.
After 3 pitchers of beer and countless shots……we ended up alone again in a bar and drunk off our asses. Now ladies I’m am here to tell you that one of the defining differences between men and women is the fact that we learn from the errors of our way and can logically analyze our problems in order to institute change in our lives and surroundings.
With that being said, I admit I could not resist the urge to bring this man to his knees…….the same man who fucked me four months ago and then proceeded to act as if he didn’t even recognize me afterwards. I wanted recognition, notoriety,……FAME in his world. I am a Leo and need to be applauded for my performances….rejection is not a pretty fit on me. I decided I would make sure there was no way in HELL he could act as if this night did not exist. After many more beers and some down and dirty, flawless flirting on my behalf……….the man finally admitted he has thought about having sex with me every time he has seen me since that “night” four months ago. On top of this already embarrassing confession he blushingly conveyed to me that he enjoyed it immensely…………….did you hear that…………….I ROCKED HIS WORLD.
In one day I went from the girl he was forgetting existed to the girl he couldn’t stop thinking about…………..who would have thought????? Ladies, remember that just because men are easily cast as simplistic creatures, doesn’t mean they are uncloakable.
-Monica
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