Let’s face it, the first time we have sex sucks. The circumstances may be great and whatever but the first time sucks. If you’re lucky you get someone who knows what they’re doing or is attentive enough to know how to please you when you’re young, so that it’s enjoyable for you from the start.
Some of us aren’t so lucky and we get well into our twenties before we get anyone good. Such was my situation. If you go through life not knowing how good it can be, you can easily fool yourself into thinking what you’ve got is fine because you don’t know what you like.
I think a lot of people go their whole lives without having a really good sexual experience, or experience an orgasm for that matter. In retrospect I think of how much I was missing and am glad I’m not anymore. 😈
But I wonder, how do you learn things like this, what you like and don’t without being promiscuous? By watching XXX rated films? Isn’t most of that about money shots and women servicing men? How does a female learn anything from that? I wonder too why it’s so unacceptable for women to talk about sex and participate in the experimentation that men enjoy without reprisal?
Just for fun I went and found a porn star name generator… 😈
My porn star name is Sarah Moan.
What’s your sexalicious porn star name?
What if I went to a bar every other night and picked up a new guy and brought him home, had a great romp in the hay and pushed him out the door the next morning with his boots on, keeping his hat as a souvenir?
I think a man keeping a woman’s panties being deemed as sexy and conquerors, keeping a man’s hat can be the same for a woman. We always look good in men’s things, and make them look better even. 😉
Back to the point, I would like to know how you learn what good sex is when you have bad examples. Romance novels? I’ve read a few and some of them are indeed juicy, is that where we’re to learn about the joys of our bodies at the hand of a lover? Where did you learn about great sex? Do you think you have great sex?
I made up this survey to see what you have experienced, please take it, it’s a way to comment while staying anonymous. 😈
How do you learn about sex and what you like?
Isn’t this fun. Being naughty is very fun 🙂 I’ll update a post later after you have all answered the poll.