May 29th, 2009
That should be a question you ask yourself a lot. With regard to everything, and especially the small things. The reason I started asking myself this, and I don’t recall how long ago, but a long time ago, was because I found myself getting all twisted up over things I couldn’t change. I started joking that if it wasn’t gonna be worth a mention in my obituary, I probably shouldn’t get extremely upset about it.
I think that outlook has allowed me to stay relatively calm in very tense situations. Life can be so demanding at times and having a calm attitude can change the way you see things, so that it doesn’t seem so bad. I have met so many people in my life who have panic attacks, anxiety concerns and stress related medical conditions, while I don’t discount their validity, I feel that so much of this can be helped with mind over matter.
What do you think of that philosophy?
I think that is a sound philosophy. I like to think I can stay calm in all situations and avoid the panic attack, but must admit there are those times when ‘the shit’ is inevitably going to hit the fan and deep concern sets in. But for the most part, I try to let most everything roll off my back.
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