I’m forward thinking..I take care of me and mine. That being said, I will not chase a man.. I expect a man to take the lead…to initiate and respond to the cues I typically obviously leave about. Now I recognize the complexities of tradition I bring to light but some of the old south is in me and I struggle not to call them “gentleman callers” 
though I guess that’s my beef right? That they’re not gentlemen … Either way, I know its an old point of view..
This has presented me with a problem. Men these days don’t expect to work as hard to get your attention..in fact….in these Jersey Shore fist pumping narcissistic days..men expect to be chased! I will miss out on a few interesting people I believe..but I believe that the man does the chasing. Period.
I should ad that this is the first dating adventure since 2002 or so…lol. Please discuss..I am very interested in your thoughts.
