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Let’s Take a Walk

by MouthyGirl

Today is the first day of the last month of 2008. This means a lot of things. First, that there are 31 days of this year left to finish anything you set out to do this year.

Second, that Christmas is coming and regardless whether or not you celebrate this holiday, so many people the world over do, that it’s bound to disrupt your life as well. Family time and holidays bring joy as well as stress.

Yesterday the hubby, the boy and me spent several hours at my sister’s house for a belated Thanksgiving dinner. I could see the stress in her face and see her expressions that told me she was overwhelmed. I think a lot of that has to do with personality, but also trying to be prepared for the whole family to be there stressed her out. I’m confident she was exhausted by the time everyone left.

Finally, this first day of the last month of 2008 also brings our attention to the fact that there’s a new year coming. Full of new resolutions, new objectives and new memories.

I certainly have a lot of plans for the coming year, primarily going back to school, hoping to accomplish something. I also will be staring down 30, on April 5th I will approach a new dawn in my life, a new decade. Unlike most women, I don’t think turning 30 will bother me at all. I’m finally at a place in my life where I’m happy, I believe I’ve found my one and only, my son is a good kid and growing up and I’m at peace with myself in a lot of ways that I wasn’t when I turned 20. So this next year holds a lot of promise for me I think.

This last month of the year I intend to get busy making plans, solidifying plans that have been made and charting my path to success in 2009. I don’t have a five year plan, but I’ve definitely got a plan for 2009. Take a walk with me down the memory lane of 2008, what you’ve experienced, what you’ve seen – who you’ve met and who you’ve parted ways with.

What’s in store for you in 2009? What happened in 2008 that was most notable that you’ll always remember?

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GirlFriday Changes in the Coming Year

by MouthyGirl

Life does nothing consistently except change.

It’s the one thing that everyone has in common. The one topic we can all discuss, that amazes us even though we know it’s coming. Regardless of how life treats you or me, that’s the one thing we will always have in common, that our lives can, have and will change in an instant.

I’m looking at going back to school in the spring semester. Thinkin’ I need to brush up on my writing skills, a few little other things I need to tighten up are also on the agenda. Going back to school gives me mixed feelings, I feel like I’ve reached a place in my life where I can turn to any number of fields and make a living, but I’m not satisfied. I find that I go home stressed over problems that are not my own, being treated in a way I do not relish at all and just generally hating what I do. I’ve learned a lot in this field and others and know that I could survive doing either of them. But I don’t want to do either of them.

So I had to decide if I was content enough to keep going at the pace I was going or if I wanted to climb. I choose to climb. I’ve always been reaching, even when my spirit and mind are at their weakest, I still reach. Do you?

Maybe contentment is all you ever wanted, and if that’s you, congratulations if you are there. Reaching is not for everyone, you have to know yourself, and above all be happy. Sure I have hard days, stressful days and days that I’d like to tell my boss to take this job and shove it. But at the end of the day, I try really hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I don’t have to be there everyday for the rest of my life. I don’t have to deal with those people beyond that 8-5 I’m obligated to be there for. And this doesn’t have to be what I do for the rest of my life.

That’s what I tell myself. That’s my light at the end of the tunnel, and going back to school will get me going on the road a little faster. I enjoy writing. Even if you aren’t reading it and I’m only getting hits from myself and my few local supporters because they know me, I still enjoy it. I find that I can envelop myself in the world of writing and brainstorm and come up with ideas to write about here, better than I can do anything else. And I’m good at most everything I set my mind to. But writing comes easier to me than anything else I have ever done.

Change is welcome at my door anytime. It brings about excitement, knowledge, and a lot of times fun. So I’m going to go with the flow, roll with this next change in my life and dive back into the world of education and get a little more of that pie for me.

What will you be changing in the coming year?

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