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Someday

by MouthyGirl

Someday my son, you will understand…that being your parent was never an easy job.  I took on that job with the knowledge that for the next 18 to 22 years I was devoted and that my primary objective was to raise up a productive member of society. 

While I do believe that you will be a productive member of society I don’t think you understand the consequences of the actions that you choose to make. 

I never wanted to be that parent that said my life was so much harder than yours and I’ve caught myself saying just that.  It’s not because I want you to feel guilty but because I want you to understand why these things are so disappointing.

Someday you’ll understand… someday you’ll have your own children and someday you’ll have that light bulb moment that reminds you of the conversations that we’ve had..you might even smile. 

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Wasted Youth

by MouthyGirl

There’s an expression that “…youth is wasted on the young’, I don’t know who said it. I never understood that until recently. Now? I’m determined to find a way to recapture that youth.

I’ve met people who have incredible internal energy without a need for caffiene, etc. I wish I had that natural energy still! They make me very jealous because I’m dependant.

I have to confess, its easy for me to pick up a habit. Like coffee, if the coffee is good I’ll likely drink too much. I have the same problem with whiskey ;) though that vice is admittedly more fun.

Back to the topic though, youth being wasted on the young, truer words were never spoken. No matter how hard I try to impart my knowledge to my son, he resists. Such is the attitude of the young. I could save him so much time, energy and effort, and I hope one day he remembers what I’ve told him.

I wonder what it is about our youth that makes us so determined to reinvent the wheel and learn everything the hard way? Were you a rare one that learned from others in your youth?

How do you get through to your children? Do you think they listen? What’s the most important lesson you think there is for your child(ren) to learn from you?

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